In your Queendom are you a QUEEN who settled?

REMEMBER we discussed Queen Vashti & Queen Esther both being queens yet different by comparison.

Are you a queen who settled or are you a QUEEN with a king who models the KING OF KINGS?

One day my beloved says to me, in a 'you should sit down, I'm about to burst your bubble' tone, 'YOU KNOW when I open up your door, bring you something special, or other gestures, it makes women want me?"

ME:  *LAUGHTER*  Which clearly was not the response he thought.  " I'm not worried about you AND I want women & girls to see."

MY BELOVED LOOKED PUZZLED.

I filled him in on this:  I know people are watching. I KNOW WOMEN WATCH, and your actions towards me aren't meant to entice jealousy but for them to realize their worth.  If a door being opened is important to you, dont settle for a man who doesn't.

I've seen women with their children look in AMAZEMENT as he walks around the car to open my door.  THE AMAZEMENT soon turns to a face of 'searching', as one searches their memory of the times their dad has opened the door for their mommy, or has daddy ever opened the door for me.

My hope is that by our example, in our little world of people we encounter or pass by, that our actions are something to model, for yourself and towards one another.

Realize & know your worth queens.

BANDS WILL MAKE HER DANCE

           


       Have you heard the song or seen the video?

             BANDS WILL MAKE HER DANCE

In my LOVE relationship, 'BANDS' is a 

reference to 

WEDDING BANDS!

Yes, my beloved knows the song, he actually sings it from time to time.  But, one day, while he sang, I made my own version:


                *Pointing to my RING FINGER*  I exclaimed, "Bands will make her dance!"

    REMIX:  Bands will make her dance, BANDS BANDS BANDS, will make her dance!


                                  It's our inside joke, I've decided to share with you.

Will you be a woman who will dance for the stack of dollar bills wrapped in a rubberBAND?  Or will you be the woman who honors herself, her worth, and waits for a man who realizes this in her AND shows her respect by presenting her with a BAND, a wedding band?

Wives, once you receive your wedding BAND, don't forget or lose sight of the DANCE:  Dance for your husband.  Don't lose sight of intimacy in your marriage nor laughter!

Is it fair to enjoy sex, engage in the act of sex PRIOR TO MARRIAGE, yet, once married, all of what you've previously done, you don't or won't do?  HONOR YOUR MAN.  Husbands honor your wives.


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